I was raised by parents who were very private people. Everything had to be kept close, never shared, as this was inappropriate and in poor taste. I find as I get older that I don’t want to keep everything “airtight”. I want to be honest with myself and with others, and I guess I feel that if someone does not like what I disclose, it really is there issue, not mine. Too much unnecessary secrecy in this world.

I am using my best things now for everyday: my mother’s china, my silver, my cherished odd pieces of Limoges and hand painted plates that I love. When a collection of very old porcelain creamer and sugar sets came crashing to the ground from an antique shelf whose hanger broke, I decided then and there that nothing was too precious to not use and enjoy every day.

My one all-time weakness happens to be very fine lace. To say I hoard this is quite accurate. I will probably keep collecting this until I die. I know no discipline in this regard! So in reading of your collections, I find comfort in my own. And you use your vintage linen in such an exquisite way, so one never knows when you will need that very special piece. So better to keep all!

Thank you for your absolution!